...Dealing With Pain...

What is probably one of the most daunting tasks...we ever face in our lives...???...

...DEALING WITH PAIN...especially extreme pain...

I can tell you right now...unless you are living inside a bubble...in a wondrous dream-land of sorts...it is inevitable...that PAIN comes your way...and tries to pull you down, away from everything, away from the things we love, the people we trust, the sensibilities...that we always held true...

Pain...just shoves all that stuff...out your door...and takes over...settling into your brain...sometimes with a relentless intensity...completely beyond our ability to comprehend...

And pain...comes in many shapes & sizes...both physically & mentally...an unyielding force...that often leaves us...in quiet desperation, total despair...or EVEN loudly screaming...bloody murder...

How can you DEAL with this scary stuff...???...

...DEAL WITH SUCH A TREMENDOUSLY WICKED & HORRIFIC FORCE...???...

Plain and Simple...It's not easy...!!!...Not at all...Not one single bit...

...REMEMBER THOUGH...

...NOTHING IN LIFE COMES EASY...THAT IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR...

And there are some GREAT measures you can take...almost a path, of sorts...to try guide you out of this ungodly world of pain...and get you onto more stable ground...where you can HEAL much better...and maybe even quicker...than you think...

First...ask yourself...is there anybody who has overcome a similar pain...and how did they do it?

Utilize the Internet...that's what it's there for...Look things up...research and research and get a whole bunch of people to research...a way to approach your pain...the best way...possible...

Then, take that info...and formulate a game plan...by going to certain doctors...taking certain drugs...anything that enables you to literally taking a better hold & understanding ...of the situation...

Re-gain some of that confidence that PAIN has taken away...from you...Re-establish...your strengths, your determination...that all is not lost...nor will it ever be lost...

Establishing HOPE is the key...HOPE is truly something to hold onto...HOPE may come tomorrow...but it grows stronger & stronger a little bit with you every single day...if you let it...Don't ever let that beautiful inner sense of HOPE dissipate or disappear...

Whether you meditate or pray or just try to relax...just try to envision the world of happiness you seek...Cling to those hopes...Cling to those wishes...Cling to those positive things ahead...

Also...try to understand...that pain can, as time rolls on, be eventually, beyond overwhelming, and sharing your true feelings...about what is happening...right then, at that moment...to someone who truly cares...is always a very good step...to unlock those strangling demons...of pain...that are closing in on you...

Don't be afraid...that you are afraid...that you are absolutely terrified...that you are losing your common senses that usually used to serve you so well....

Unfortunately...we have to shut it all down and become realistic...We all have a great deal of PRIDE...a great deal of wanting to hide one's shame...of wallowing in the sadness, the deep depression, and the severe anxieties...we are stricken with...rather than admit our weaknesses to others...It's a very, very tough, paralyzing ordeal...that may be sinking in...further on you...

Somebody's gotta come in...and knock all that crap...completely...out of your mind...!!!...

And get you up, right back up, up on the right track...Lift you up & dust you off...and give you some HOPE...Call in the cavalry...round the old chuckwagons...and load you up on ammo...!!!...

We are going to war...!!!...

Right then and there...Accept the PAIN...as a challenge...a mighty challenge to overcome...a challenge like no other...Shaking yourself loose from a downward spiral, and just gaining a bit more courage...for the rocky road ahead..

For me personally...I had to actually accept the PAIN...as my friend...I knew it was gonna be there and it wasn't gonna go away...anytime soon...I had to find new ways....almost a new life...of generating a positive spirit...in new ways...finding the joys in life...I never knew existed...

After all, The PAIN may just suddenly goes away.....just washes out of your mind...and just drift off into the sunset...drifting and drifting and drifting away in a glorious fog that fades into the past...

...And that may be one of the greatest days of your life...and you may not even realize that, ever!

But, maybe, at that point...incredibly, you may realize...you have gained a great wealth of knowledge...about yourself...by surviving the very worst, the most extreme hardship...life could offer you...

...See...

...HEALING...is not just a word...it's our way...of confronting the bad things in life....and enabling a process...to flow forth...that changes the dimensions of evils & pains & difficulties...afflicting us...which have no place...in being prominent factors...in our lives...

As we try...to help...one another along...somehow, someway, in acheiving an inner peace...and an outer love...for everything that surrounds us...(...far away from the pain...and far away from the struggles...)

...GOOD LUCK...